February 2007 – Tips & Topics

TIPS & TOPICS Volume 4, No.9 February 2007 In this issue — SAVVY — SKILLS — SOUL — Until Next Time Thanks for joining us this month. Have you ever worked where there are disagreements and conflict? You might want to read on.

November 2023 – Vol. #21, No. 8

Welcome to the November edition of Tips and Topics and a happy Thanksgiving to all in the USA. In SAVVY, when clients present with mental health problems and are also using alcohol and other drugs, there could be three diagnostic possibilities. When mental health clinicians are not savvy about addiction and vice versa, misdiagnosis is easy to do. In SKILLS, assessment guidelines on timelines and drug-free periods can help tease apart what is going on in the relationship between substance use and mental health signs and symptoms. In SOUL, I invite you to ponder what you might say at the Thanksgiving dinner table when someone says: “Let’s share what you are grateful for this year.” Try out Marshall Rosenberg’s modified 3-step process. David Mee-Lee, M.D. DML Training and Consulting SAVVY Recently a friend introduced me to his 36 year old daughter who had just started seeing a therapist for anxiety. I talked briefly with the young woman who knew I am a psychiatrist and she was surprisingly quite open saying, unsolicited, that she was a “functional alcoholic”.  She has quite a demanding job with much responsibility and is doing well in her work.  But she went on to tell me that she often opens a bottle of wine at night and ends up drinking the whole bottle. She felt a good connection with her therapist who is doing cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) with her. It wasn’t my place to do a clinical evaluation, but her drinking raised a red flag for me and got me wondering: Did her therapist do a substance use history? Are they even knowledgeable about addiction and have the skills to explore addiction? If they do discover her drinking, will they know how to engage her into a change plan for risky drinking; or will they explain away the drinking as a symptom of anxiety disorder? Unfortunately too many mental health trained clinicians are not savvy about addiction, believing that substance use is just a self-medication coping skill for unresolved mental health issues.        Tip 1 Risky substance use can be a self-medication coping mechanism. But it can be an indicator of a co-occurring substance use disorder that needs evaluation. When clients present with mental health problems and are also using alcohol and other drugs, there could be three (not mutually exclusive) diagnostic possibilities: The person may be attempting to self-medicate a psychiatric disorder with substance use. The mental health problems may be signs and symptoms of the addiction illness e.g., depression because of the crash after a cocaine binge or mood swings because they are getting high on uppers and downers. The person may indeed have both a co-occurring mental and substance use disorder.   Tip 2 It is easy to label people with mental health signs and symptoms as having a mental disorder and prescribe medication. It is better to medicate diagnoses not signs and symptoms. When mental health clinicians are not savvy and skilled in addiction diagnosis and treatment, the tendency is to fall back on what you know; and not …

December 2020

Conflict, compromise, compassion; Better Arguments; Grieving a lost sister In SAVVY, apply the three Cs to your family relationships, your clients and patients, or to your friends and neighborhood as well as bridging the political divide and the ongoing rancor. In SKILLS, I highlight the dimensions and principles of the Better Arguments Project, a group with an initiative to heal America in the aftermath of the 2020 election. In SOUL, two sisters’ relationship is severed prompted by the political divide and who voted for the “other side”. How about your family and friends?  Are you grieving over a fractured relationship?

January 2019

Addressing racial disparities; Unconscious bias and Nonviolent Communication; Africa and a cultural experience Welcome to the New Year and the January edition of Tips and Topics (TNT). In this edition, the focus in SAVVY is on race relations, unconscious bias and the foundation for nonviolent communication. SKILLS raises consciousness about systems barriers and biases which work against racial equality and ways to break down walls. SOUL is about the adventure in Africa this month that will place me face to face with a very different culture.

November 2017

Stump the Shrink Questions; Empathy about getting a visa

August 2017

Lessons from “American Sniper”; citizen of the world; trauma journals

April 2012 – Tips & Topics

Vol. 10, No. 1April, 2012 In This Issue SAVVY – Readers comment on Spirituality and religion SKILLS – Relevant Lessons from the last ten years SOUL – Why do you do what you do – the hand in the bucket of water STUMP the SHRINK – How to use Stages of Change This April edition of Tips and Topics (TNT) is the beginning of our tenth year. Welcome to all and the many new readers this month too. Senior Vice President of The Change Companies®

March 2010 – Tips &Topics

TIPS & TOPICS from David Mee-Lee, M.D. Volume 7, No.11 March 2010 In this issue — SAVVY   – Staff Morale and What’s Bugging You? — SKILLS   – How to Express Powerful Appreciations — SOUL – Singapore, China and AA — SUCCESS STORIES  – Conflict: The Benefits of a Policy — Until Next Time Welcome to the many new subscribers to TIPS and TOPICS.  Accessing TNT issues just got easier. Look for the button on the right hand side of the home page of The Change Companies

January 2009 – Tips & Topics

TIPS & TOPICS Volume 6, No.9 January 2009 In this issue — SAVVY — SKILLS — SOUL — SOCIAL COMMUNITY — Simple Website Q & As — Until Next Time Welcome to the New Year and a couple of significant events: a new President of the USA with all the accompanying hope and optimism (at least for the over 50% of voters); and equally earth-shattering, the launch of my new website www.davidmeelee.com More on that later.

January 2008 – Tips & Topics

TIPS & TOPICS Volume 5, No.9 January 2008 In this issue — SAVVY — SKILLS — SOUL — Until Next Time Happy New Year and may 2008 be a successful and productive year for you and your team. January’s edition takes a fresh look at the Mission, Vision & Values of both your agency and your personal work. Similarly I also am taking a fresh look at my Mission, Vision & Values and -my website, www.DMLMD.com.